Dorothy, my mother in law, had a major stroke on Thursday and is in hospice. Mr. D and I are taking turns with her so she's not alone. Sometimes I watch her hand explore the texture of her satin pajamas or the cotton sheet, other times I'm holding on to her hand for dear life. Not sure who's.
I'm drawing her.... Drawn from life..................................................
I used to worry that people would think it's macabre to draw someone dying. I don't anymore.
Drawing is one good way of truly seeing Dorothy and honoring her struggle.
Drawing from life means observing who and what is in front of me. It's a means to stay fully present, rather than getting lost in a story about what Dorothy might be experiencing. I can't do anything to take away her dying, but I can be her witness.
A drawing can be
testimony. (Some interesting definitions of testimony that you might not know.)